Reflections on Life and Listening: A Conversation with Dr. Mark Goulston Part 1

In this episode of Dadages, we are joined by Dr. Mark Goulston, a renowned psychiatrist, professor, and author. Dr. Goulston shares his expertise in listening, negotiating, and managing difficult situations. The first half of the discussion focuses on applying his framework to current world issues. The second half delves into the dadage “Good health is not the only thing that matters, but without good health, nothing else matters,” as Dr. Goulston reflects on his own battle with a potentially terminal diagnosis. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation on the power of listening and the value of good health.
Chapters:
[00:02:48] The importance of listening.

[00:06:18] Acute myeloid leukemia treatment.
[00:08:08] Powerlessness and impotent rage.
[00:12:38] Surgical Empathy.
[00:16:08] Longest time without a suicide attempt.
[00:19:49] Insights on conflict resolution.
[00:23:38] Disappointment and conflict resolution.
[00:26:37] Talking over vs talking with.
[00:27:59] Engaging and inviting communication.
[00:32:57] Study of death and dying.
[00:36:39] Leadership getting worse.
[00:40:41] Healing through mentorship.

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Chadding with Dads: A conversation with Steve Farrell Part 2

In this episode, we continue our interview with Steve Farrell, author of The New Universal Dream. We explore the connection between Steve and Ken Honda, author of Happy Money, who wrote a glowing review of Steve’s book. Steve shares how he got to know Ken and highlights his incredible wisdom and success. Steve also discusses the work of his nonprofit organization, Humanities Team, and how they have collaborated with various leaders in transformational education, including Ken Honda. Stay tuned for exciting programs and collaborations to come.
Chapters:
[00:01:33] Ken Honda and masterclasses.
[00:04:25] The thirds model.
[00:07:52] Choosing Your Mountains.
[00:11:20] Living a delicious life.
[00:16:09] The power of divine love.
[00:20:14] Freedom and Responsibility.
[00:23:14] Neil Donald Walsh’s profound wisdom.
[00:26:08] A new spirituality emerging.
[00:30:10] Pyroluria and its effects.
[00:32:42] Balancing work and family.
[00:36:20] Remarkable girl sings national anthem.
[00:40:35] Cringeworthy dad jokes.

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Chadding with Dads: The Transformative Power of the New Universal Dream with Steve Farrell Pt1

In this episode of Dadages, our host Chad Hagle dives deep with guest Steve Farrell, a successful Silicon Valley entrepreneur turned humanitarian. They discuss Steve’s transformative journey from building tech firms to leading a global nonprofit organization. Steve’s new book, “A New Universal Dream,” explores the concept of humanity’s interconnectedness and the potential for personal and societal evolution. This episode offers a perspective-changing exploration of the power of investing in the lives of others and embracing a new universal dream.

Chapters:
[00:02:34] The New Universal Dream.
[00:10:21] The illusion of separation.
[00:11:33] One consciousness of the universe.
[00:14:52] Feeling into divine presence.
[00:18:13] Living the universal dream.
[00:22:19] The urgent false reality.
[00:26:44] Lofty goals and organization building.
[00:29:03] Connecting with the divine.
[00:34:37] Transparency in nonprofit organizations.
[00:36:01] Building a strong team.
[00:41:06] Passionate volunteer coordinators.
[00:44:43] The vision and provision.
[00:47:24] Appreciating people’s contributions.

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Chadding with Dads: A conversation with Ken Honda

In this episode, our host Chad Hagle interviews Ken Honda, a best-selling author from Japan known as a money guru. Ken shares his insights on how to make peace with your money and live a happier financial life. Chad discusses his own experiences applying Ken’s philosophies. Tune in to learn how to make your money happy and improve your relationship with wealth.
Chapters:

[00:00:37] Being highly selective in decisions.
[00:04:35] Happy money vs. unhappy money.
[00:09:03] Money IQ and EQ. [00:10:38] Money as energy.
[00:15:18] The importance of success.
[00:18:26] Balancing work and passion.
[00:21:16] Commitment to craft
[00:24:34] Financial market changes and intelligence.
[00:28:09] Unique Japanese culture.
[00:31:14] The positive and negative lessons about money.
[00:34:25] Family and Tragedy
[00:38:03] Invisible assets and debts.
[00:42:23] Warren Buffett’s gold coins.
[00:44:39] Fatherhood and Sacrifices.
[00:48:14] Teaching Money is Fun.

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Chadding with Dads: A conversation with Ed Center

In this episode of Dadages, our host Chad Hagle sits down with Ed Center, founder of The Village Well Parenting. They go on a journey through the multi-faceted world of parenting. Starting with Jorge’s heartwarming generosity and diving into the complexities of identity, culture, and emotional validation. From the intricacies of queer households and the challenges of decolonized parenting, to understanding neurodivergence and even pineapple snobbery, this episode serves as a comprehensive guide to modern family life. With thought-provoking segments on stoicism, trauma, and even a lighthearted bad dad joke to wrap things up, this hour-long episode is a rollercoaster ride that promises to leave listeners both enlightened and entertained.
Chapters:

[00:01:59] Jorge’s Generosity Shines Through.
[00:04:48] Authenticity in parenting.
[00:07:31] Cultural traditions and parenting.
[00:12:00] Reclaiming power and identity.
[00:17:09] Queer folks raising kids.
[00:18:32] Exposing children to different relationships.
[00:24:18] Toxic elements of cultural respect.
[00:26:58] Validating all emotions.
[00:30:11] Pineapple snobbery and Hawaiian heritage.
[00:34:07] Trauma and healing in relationships.
[00:39:19] Overcoming fight flight instincts.
[00:42:40] Stoicism as a life anchor.
[00:48:15] Understanding neurodivergence and parenting.
[00:49:25] Decolonized parenting.
[00:53:23] College as a pathway.
[00:58:23] Fine line in fatherhood.
[01:02:56] Get Off That Damn Phone.
[01:05:18] Bad dad joke story.

Links: https://www.villagewellparenting.com/

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Chadding with Dads: A conversation with David Essel Part 2

In the second half of this interview with sports psychologist and author David Essel, the focus shifts to life after sports and gaining insights into David’s personal and professional experiences. We discuss the impactful moment of walking away from sports and how David faced the difficult decision to retire. Listeners are encouraged to check out the first half of the interview for more on mental mastery and maximum performance for professional athletes.

Chapters:
02:38 Life after a sports career.

03:52 The true ego.
07:39 Jim Boeheim’s surprising support.
09:51 Regrets and living life.
13:23 Childhood basketball mishap.
16:09 A necessary emotional release.
19:54 Punishment as motivation.
24:11 Mental health as a teacher.
26:00 Mental health in professional athletes.
29:01 A supportive dad.
33:59 Gaining confidence like a honey badger.
35:06 Conquering fear in sports.
38:30 Audibles and author passion.

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Chadding with Dads: A Conversation with David Essel Part 1

In this episode of Dadages, our host Chad welcomes David Essel, a renowned author, counselor, and master life coach. They discuss David’s new book, “Mental Mastery and Maximum Performance for Professional Athletes,” and how its principles can be applied to anyone’s life. David shares his insights on working with pro athletes and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who excel in their respective fields. Tune in to learn how to take your career and life to the next level.

Chapters:
00:00 Cold intro

02:09 BHAGs, big, hairy, audacious goals.
03:49 Challenges as opportunities to grow.
09:26 Mental health challenges in athletes
11:56 NBA players complaining after every call.
14:31 Novak Djokovic’s career struggles.
16:35 Books on leadership and mindfulness.
20:27 Dadages exclusive: Meeting Moses Malone.
23:46 The best advice from Moses Malone.
26:43 Financial planning for athletes
29:12 Adversity and success.
31:37 Duncan Robinson’s breakthrough moments.
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Can you do something just because you can. pt.2 – FQC

In this episode of Dadages, our host Chad Hagle continues his discussion on the concept of capability. He explores the idea that just because you can do something, it doesn’t mean you should and delves into the importance of recognizing when you may be exceeding your capacity or producing negative consequences. Chad also revisits previous concepts, such as the overdoing mindset and not letting what you can’t do prevent you from doing what you can. Tune in to gain practical insights on managing your capabilities effectively.

Chapters:
00:00 Cold intro01:32 Maximizing personal and organizational productivity. 05:23 Personal and organizational capacity. 08:24 Scrum methodology and timeboxing. 11:40 Identifying the canary in your own coal mine. 16:08 Leave time for nothing. 21:11 Don’t see your limits as weakness. 22:36 Delegate or die.


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Can You Do Something Just Because You Can?

In this episode of Dadages, our host Chad Hagel returns after a week off to recover from a cold. Today’s episode will be personal and revealing, tying into the topics discussed with Josh Wilson last week. The host discusses the major problems that can arise from pursuing perfection, particularly in high-achieving families. The belief that perfection is the standard of achievement in these families can have negative consequences for children, leading to paralysis and an inability to make decisions. Failing to meet the impossible standard of perfection can greatly impact their self-esteem. Tune in for some fatherly wisdom and meaningful insights.
Chapters:
00:00 Cold intro
03:34 Failure and its evaluation.

04:09 Paradoxes
08:40 Newton Laws.
15:38 Pursuing perfection and decision-making.
19:52 Moving during the COVID pandemic.
27:14 Challenges in the house.
30:23 Home renovation challenges.
35:37 Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you can.
37:10 Parental expectations and responsibilities.

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Chadding with Dads: A Conversation With Josh Wilson

In this special episode of Dadages, Chad joins Josh on the Uncensored Advice for Men podcast to share his wisdom and life experiences. From his family experience to insights on men’s health, Chad provides valuable advice for listeners. Tune in to hear their engaging conversation and gain insights that are not to be missed.
Chapters:
02:19 Retail real estate development.

06:40 Generational transference of knowledge.
08:10 Embracing Failure
12:26Sacrifices for financial success.
15:10 Father’s accomplishments and influence.
19:42 The importance of financial independence.
25:11 Investing in philanthropy.
28:19 Philanthropic investment.
31:01 Humanities and sciences.
36:32 Defining your own success.
37:59 Family wealth and generations.
42:00 Defining success for myself.

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